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holdtightforlove 64 / M
"Pansexual with a love of slow sensuous pleasure!!"
Belfast, Antrim, United Kingdom
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holdtightforlove 64/M
Belfast, Antrim , United Kingdom
An exchange of words is how we learn. An exchange of thoughts is how we decide. An exchange of feelings is how we know we are for each other
[COLOR crim][/COLOR]If you seek the sensual pleasures that human beings can provide as they explore each other, then please make contact, as we have a shared interest to talk about!! Well, maybe after a while, do more than talk about!! Let us treasure the pleasure together!! Just before I write some more, can I thank you for finding me. All members are welcome including those who are standard who are able to make contact without penalty to their accounts!! I started this introduction indicating my desire to take a sensual journey of mutual enjoyment. For me this requires a mental connection as well as a physical one, requiring the linking together of the mind, body and spirit. Still, considering the place in which I am expressing my thoughts to, I will put aside for the moment the cerebral and concentrate on the carnal!! In other words be rather more naughty in what I write!! I will begin with my adoration of the female form. Gender is defined by genitalia, so I shall confess to admiring the look and feel of that very private place of pleasure unique to every female. For me, the vulva is the very essence of a woman, something to be admired, gazed upon with glee and celebrated. The texture of the folds of skin, the juices that flow, what a creation for a lover to enjoy!! I just adore the Mound of Venus and where it leads to, sorry I am getting a little carried away here! In truth, I love everything that is a woman, mental, physical, the whole human sexual being! Oral and aural are what I derive most satisfaction from. To listen to the sounds of a woman as she ascends to the heights of orgasm brings me immense satisfaction. I love to touch and explore a woman's body, but only after I have got to know the per that she is. I need to care about the woman I am with, or to put it another way: I need emotion before the motion. For me, sex is not something to be treated in a casual manner. You are a woman to be cherished and respected, deserving a relationship that begins with an appreciation of your inner thoughts, ideas and feelings, and continues into an honouring of the physical side of your being. My penis is small and flaccid, so I am unable to provide adequate penis penetration. Even if I managed an erection, I would ejaculate in seconds. You can see I believe in total openness and honesty!! For me, trust and understanding must be at the core of any relationship. Thankfully there are toys that help to provide pleasure in other ways. Anyway, I would be one who feels that there is more joy to be derived from using my lips, teeth and tongue as well as my hands and fingers to give some nice sensations! Sex is about your desires, expressing what you want through communicating, touching, feeling, sharing and just letting yourself go. The journey to the palace of ecstasy should be a slow, sensual one, with every part of your being tingling with tension, waiting for release. I like to listen as much as I like to talk, believing my mouth and tongue are for making words as well as making love! Having a penis that is small and which cannot maintain a satisfactory stiffness, means I like to contemplate the pleasure of a penis that is not my own. Maybe a bigger, stronger manhood, something that I can put my hands on and wrap my mouth around!! I am an oral guy and enjoy giving pleasure to a man through gentle touching with my fingers and delicate use of my tongue. A light sucking of your testicles, running my tongue repeatedly along your strong stiff shaft with my lips circling around your beautiful glans. To see the flowing of clear juicy liquid that makes my fingers slippery, as I enjoy giving you pleasure, continuing with those lovely sweet contractions as your sperm emerges from your tense hot penis. I know I have written more about the pleasures of being with a woman. This is because my thoughts about the pleasures of being with a man have been released as a consequence of being a member of this community. It has made me consider myself as no longer quite so straight laced, and has led me to discover that there are now two sides of my being to be explored, and probably everything in between!! [I]LEGAL NOTICE OF USE: The content of this profile, including but not limited to its pictures, are considered private and/or property of the profile holder. You do NOT have permission to use, or cause the use and/or re-use of this profile, on part and/or in whole, including but not limited to any of its pictures, in any way, form, format, study, and/or forum, both current and future. Right is hereby reserved to legally pursue and seek remedy against any and all violators both individuals and/or entities.[/I]

My Ideal Person A sensuous person with a preference for gentle, slow love-making. Someone who wants more than the sexual love a male can offer. Someone who is prepared to invest in the emotional connection that makes the physical act of love between people the ultimate expression of their relationship. Someone who believes that sex is an act of devotion to whoever you are with. Let us pursue the pleasures of life together!

You are who you are, have done what you have done, and it is from this that a journey of discovery begins. So, why don't you try a little tenderness, come fill up my senses and I hope, never lose that lovin' feeling by making contact with me.

May you find what it is you are looking for, and if I can help with this, then it would be good to get to know each other. I am here to be your friend and would love to be your pleasure pal!! Thank-you for taking the time to find me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage, Whatever gets you excited

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Acceptance of who we are

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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  • 64 / male
  • Belfast, Antrim, United Kingdom
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: April 3, 1960
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Libertarian
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Short/Thin
Circumcised: No
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Grey
Hair Length: Receding
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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