I have been on AFF for many years now, with occasional breaks away of some months, ideally looking for a lady with whom to share a discreet relationship. That relationship has not happened, maybe my age, maybe my marital status, maybe my lack of a profile photo in the past have all contributed. Rather than dwell on the perceived negative of my lack of success, I have focused on the positive - the many friends throughout the world in this community that I have connected online with. It is those friends and the potential to connect with more in the future that keep bringing me back. and that is my main focus, to connect , network, support and encourage those genuine people within our community. The discreet relationship remains a potential prospect and desire - if the opportunity does arrive, then that would be welcomed. To enhance that possibility, but to retain the element of discretion, I have a main profile photo , taken last Christmas at my Work family function. Whilst the Santa Costume as my main profile photo provides a cloak of discretion, I do have a couple of recent body photos there as well. Those couple of photos are also an indication of my naughty little secret.

My Ideal Person Open-minded people who share a passion for sexuality, a passion for pleasure.
Age, gender and sexual preferences are not important. Being genuine is a quality that I appreciate.
AdultFriendFinder - as the name suggests, to find like minded Adults with the aim of becoming Friends. Being Friends brings benefits - and friendship is another quality that is important to me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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