LOCALS - If you write me and say you're local and interested but you don't pay for non-paying members to see your profile - i can't see it. If that's the case. Merely writing me to say YOU are interested in ME means doodly-squat unless 1. you tell me about yourself and 2. send photos and 3. I therefore become interested after receipt. Your assumption that I'm likely not interested if I don't respond after the previous emails would be correct. I'm looking for ongoing relationships with locals and yes a FWB (emphasis on the "F") IS a relationship. If youre one of those people that refuses to include the word "relationship" in your vocabulary then keep on scrolling. I am not, however, looking for a "commitment" of any kind which is probably what you actually mean if you're one of those people. TO ALL ON THIS SITE - I don't meet people unless we've established some sort of rapport here first. READ THAT SENTENCE AGAIN. A person/people with personality's and kind souls. ENM here = ethically non-monogamous. 5.24 ok now this site is blurring all messages that come in with a prompt to pay for membership to even respond to them OR IMs. Blurring who gives me tips and how much, blurring flirts, blurring who puts me on a hotlist and who views me. So if you're not paying for free members to contact you then they can't. 6.24 - now they're back allowing free members to respond to IMs for 35 pts but still can't see emails even w points unless YOU pay for non-paying-members to be able to contact u? ? ? what-in-the -everloving-eff-you-see-kay is going on the damn boardroom of the company that controls this site!.?? .....hits-head-against-wall..... 11.24 - ok now i can actually respond to emails from gold members, and others that aren't gold members as well it seems, but I still cannot see profiles UNLESS you pay for non paying members to be able to see them. TO ALL: I meet for drinks first.....nothing more.....for the vibe check. Must send photos and display a personality before I agree to meet. If you're a financially secure man who might like an artistic, smart, sexy, bawdy, funny and most of all fun.as.all.get.out mature confident woman to put some color in his life from time to time......get in touch. I may know one. TRAVELERS - Traveling thru nola? I give tours of the sexy side of life here with me as your guide, for consideration, as a side quest. If youre one of those dudes that want to meet me while you're passing through New Orleans, there needs to be a reason of some sort for me to commit to spending my time meeting someone passing thru when rando fucks aint what does it for me - as i describe above im looking for ongoing situations. I got enough friends, yall

My Ideal Person Not a hit-it-and-quit-type.....someone dependable who treats partners like people first vs. a throwaway series of hairy holes. I first got on this site as a couple with my last ex in 2017 in another state....I've had some great experiences, and met quite a few friends im still in touch with here, as well as a couple of truly royal scumbags. But that happens anywhere you go. Still looking for the elusive partners I vibe with both inside and outside the bedroom here in new orleans tho