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CavalierVT 52 / M
"I just want your extra time, and your...."
Norwich, Vermont, United States
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CavalierVT 52/M
Norwich, Vermont
Is it too sapio that my first question usually is 'What field is your post-grad in?'
Stick around for the Top 5 List, eh? It's totally worth it. I am interested in seeing who is around. I'm fun and curious and adventuresome, so I am looking for those characteristics in a friend, or at least someone seeking to explore that side of herself. I am also into just hanging out or meeting someone for a glass of wine or something. We can see where it goes from there. Easy going with whatever. I am relatively tall, attractive, fun, funny, polite, tasteful, and creatively naughty when the situation allows. I am someone you'd take home to meet your parents, unless you previously told them about our dynamic sexual connection. (But if you told them, I would have to ask you about your relationship with your parents. ;) ) Note that I typically ask for text info early on, and soon after. I never send texts or call without getting your permission first, but it helps avoid having drawn out conversations with those who aren't who they say they are. So if you need months of messaging before sharing digits, it may not be a match.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who is ready to add some dynamic quality to her life, but without the initial expectations of a LTR. I am not experienced with "the lifestyle" in the big group sense, but I do know that I want to be able to connect with a person beyond just sex. Intelligent women are, to me, simply the greatest company one can have.

If things go well I could see taking someone along for some travel. I do travel and look to meet people where I go. As said before this can just be for a drink or a meal. I simply enjoy the company of others.

Age is not an issue, although I find I sync better with a younger person. I am not necessarily looking for someone who looks like a Barbie doll, but on the more HWP side is preferred. [Note: We all have some extra weight, being adults without eating disorders. Don't be too self-conscious about it. ] Can't speak for all men, but this guy appreciates small breasts every bit as much as larger ones. No woman should ever get an augmentation to impress me.

Getting off the topic (I think), I have to express my initial impression that some folks on here just crack me up. Now I am new and not a "pro" at many of the activities discussed herein, but I think it is ridiculous how some folks post pictures of their genitalia and nothing else. Is that the extent of your appeal?? For example I checked out a discussion group here, and all the writers were men whose pic was their prick. Looked like a mini-mushroom farmers' convention. Talk about a "circle jerk"...

Now don't get me wrong, if you are packing a knee-knocker that puts a 2-liter Pepsi bottle to shame, by all means do include it in your pics. I mean, women were the ones who originated "Flaunt it if you got it," right? But to have it as the sole focus... to me that just displays a sexual deficiency of the mind. And I'm not picking sides, it goes for the women double. (If all I wanted to see were closeups of something that looks like a ham sandwich, I could go to a deli.) Bottom line: Don't have a main pic be an anatomy lesson. When I see tasteful pictures of people on here, the ones that express nudity, sexuality, and personality in a way that intrigues but not imposes, I know those people are super sexy because their sensuality goes to their core.

My 2¢, but what do I know...

If you are of a like mind on some or all of these perspectives, then probably we are looking for the same thing and should talk. I say with complete confidence that I give excellent chat.

That's enough to nibble on.
OK, you've gone the distance with reading the profile. So here it is, as promised:


1. I will never, EVER, as much as touch a hotel bedspread again.

2. Show me a Couple with a webcam, and I'll show you a guy jerking off alone in the dark.

3. Your saying you are a MILF doesn't make you a MILF, unless you'd literally like to go fuck yourself.

4. Whoever said "the camera adds weight compared to real life" never visited this site. The few I've met were significantly larger in reality. On here the pictures also apparently reverse aging. (I know mine do. )

5. The more men claim to know about sex, the less they actually know about women.

[Feel free to suggest another. I know you have one in mind! ]

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Massage, Those that turn on my partner

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss sexual desires

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Marge Simpson - Stack of blue hair

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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  • 52 / male
  • Norwich, Vermont, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: October 30, 1971
Travels to: Willow Grove, Pennsylvania, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 6 ft 1 in / 185-187 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None