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89074BiGuy 65 / M
"Discreet Bi Guy Seeking Younger for Ongoing"
Ventura, California, United States
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89074BiGuy 65/M
Ventura, California
In Ventura from 12/1/23 - 5/1/23 6+ Cut guy, attractive, clean-shaven, experienced, romantic with the right guy, manscaped, vers and open-minded. I love it raw but play safe to start until we get to know each other. I'm 6 ft, 185 lbs, very clean, fit, 6+, attractive professional, bi-sexual seeking a LADY (any age) to join me in this lifestyle. OR a younger guy (under 40 please; OR, ANY AGED COUPLE. For you concerned ladies, seeking an adventurous guy like me, I AM MARRIED BUT LOOKING for a lifestyle partner. 1) I'd love to be with (on an on-going basis) a very adventurous, open-minded LADY OR YOUNG GUY who's extremely discreet, attractive, fit, cut, shaved, patient, and amorous. I am not seeking a blow-and-go affair, though they can be fun from time to time. 2) I prefer a 6-8 inch & cut; guy for when the time and place are right for both of us. I'm versatile with the right guy. Anal sex is not required. 3) An adventurous lady who is also very clean for MF, MMF, MFM, MMMF or FMF fun. She need not be bi and would encouraged to seek male and female lovers as she wishes. 4) I love thong panties, both male and female. I wear them fairly regularly. However, I am NOT a cross-dresser and am not attracted to those who dress up like that. With a couple, I am versatile and can be super straight; and not homophobic. I'm seeking to suck his cock at the very least, and a lot more if allowed. I can no longer host. I'm cut, mostly shaved, 6 inches by 5 inches around (1.5 inch thick). I am mainly a bottom, but will top the right guy in the right circumstances, but not everyone. I'll do whatever you want me to do except pain and dirty shit. PICTURES ARE A MUST: If you won't share face and full body pictures with me before we meet, please stop right here and don't waste either of our time!! I love to, and prefer to, HOST when the wife is at work or visiting family in San Diego. I am a clean, professional, very straight looking and acting, and NOT GAY in any way (other than I love cock - LOL), nor do I have any interest in meeting fully GAY men! I don't smoke, nor do I have any tattoos. I'm not into lots of tattoos so if you're covered in them please move on...A few are ok! I WANT: 1) A sexy, open-minded, attractive, LADY who would be excited being with a bi-sexual guy as her partner. NO SECRETS. 2) Clean-shaven, athletic to an average built, good-looking, young guy, married or attached guys preferred but not required. 3) And, any aged couples seeking a 3rd, or more I love to chat and CAM naked and hard. We all know the IM and CAM features really suck on here and disconnects quite often. I am on my CAM quite a bit, so "Friend" me and watch for me to chat. I have more pictures I can share with you that AFF won't post. Just ask and you shall receive! However, be sure YOU HAVE SOME TO SHARE with me!

My Ideal Person PLEASE...Read my "likes"...If you're a GUY, please be attractive, up to 40 clean-shaven (I have no interest in sucking a hairy cock!), you must be well manscaped 6+ and cut. Not interested in cross-dressers.

I will consider up to 50 if you're fit and look younger. Otherwise I most likely will not meet with you. COUPLES, ANY AGE! And, WOMEN, I'm seeking a partner to join me, ANY AGE.

Ideally, I'm seeking an open-minded, free-spirited, easy-going LADY to have 3somes with me. You're attractive to me, sexy, fit and extremely open-minded, and NOT jealous or homophobic. I won't be. Live with me if you like, but we will do all of it together with no secrets or lies.

Also seeking a GUY. He's many years younger than me, up to 40, (up to 50 if you're fit and look much younger). Please be mainly shaved and cut, hairy and bushy is a turn-off, sorry. A 6-8 inch top for when the time is just right for both of us. I'm versatile for the right guy only. He's fit, but not a gym fanatic, just a normal guy. Married or attached would be preferred, but not required. Discrete a MUST. He/she loves to chat about taboos, like I do.

NO CROSS-DRESSERS, PLEASE. I love panties and nighties, but that's about it on a guy.


I shave most of my body and love wearing men's thong bikini undies to feel sexy all day. Cam with me!

I will NOT meet anyone who won't exchange pictures, including face and full body, prior to meeting you.

He/she/they MUST have pictures to share, both R-rated as well as G-rated. If you won't share face and body pictures with me before we meet, please DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WITH ME!

Before we meet we will KNOW what we both look like (current pictures); what we both want out of our meeting and what we want for the future for us, if we are attracted to each other that way. I know I am seeking the impossible, but I have chatted with several ladies on AdultFriendFinder and know I can find YOU!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Peter White, smooth jazz

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Michelle Pfeiffer, Sharon Stone

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 65 / male
  • Ventura, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: November 9, 1958
Travels to: Las Vegas, Baja California Sur, Mexico
Hometown: Santa Monica West LA, California, United States
Relocate?: Yes
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Finance
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Grey
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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