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Pdx79 44 M
13  questions
What are Your Thoughts on Nude Beaches? - 7/30/2019

My wife and I have been hitting the local clothing optional beaches for a few years now. It's has always been fun. We've only run into a few unsavory situations, one such scenario was a grandma jerking off all comers. As of late we have started to look for friends who would be interested in hanging out and enjoying being nude and good company. We are struggling to find people who are up ...

34 response(s), 33 votes
Awvboy60 66 M
1  question
I wonder - 7/30/2019

Ok Am I the only person who wonders if AdultFriendFinder generates views on my profile? I have been here a few years and the same people or couples show up as they viewed my profile they never leave a message or resins to a message so why keep viewing? Also wonder when a friend shows up on the mobile app that they viewed my profile but when I check the main web version it's been weeks since they visited. ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
Adult Nursing Relationships - 7/29/2019

I am lactating and I am wondering are there any older men (my age ) enjoy breast milk or is it younger men?

35 response(s), 41 votes
edbob2 42 C
1  question
Huge turn on? - 7/29/2019

Do you find peirced nipples on a female a huge turn on? How about if only 1 is pierced?

32 response(s), 49 votes
Cesaracvdo 27 M
5  questions
Experiencias en el transporte - 7/29/2019

Muchas veces en los diferentes tipos de transporte público pueden pasar cosas interesantes. Algo que pasa de los simples roses de los cuerpos, a experiencias súper cachondas en las cuales terminas muy juntito con algún desconocido/a. ¿Alguna vez has tenido alguna experiencia de este tipo? ¿Cómo fue?

6 response(s), 17 votes
HenryNJune69 52 C
8  questions
Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019

Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br> It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives results of pages and pages using those images. Why would you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just trolls? <br><br> Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake or stock porn ...

35 response(s), 48 votes
HenryNJune69 52 C
8  questions
Google Images to find fake pics - 7/29/2019

Has anyone else found a lot of fake pics there? <br><br> It's amazing when a quick search on Images gives results of pages and pages using those images. Why would you use fake pics on here? We're all pretty sure we'll see what you actually look like if we ever meet. Or is it just trolls? <br><br> Anyway, does anyone else use Images to spot fake or stock porn ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
stallion3301 49 M
2  questions
What woman want - 7/29/2019

So what do woman actually want from this site from a guy? I know everyone is different just wondering what most are looking for

33 response(s), 29 votes
WantSomeNice2 49 M
6  questions
I think we both want it..... - 7/29/2019

Ok, my wife likes dirty talk in bed. She loves to talk about fucking other guys with bugger cocks than mine. I would love to see her do it. However, I can't really tell if its just dirty talk or not.... <br><br> Any advice?

29 response(s), 23 votes
khanna_harsh2013 39 M
1  question
Why there are no genuine women for phone sexual talks and video calls? - 7/29/2019

From past 1 year, I have lost thousand of bucks in finding one genuine female who is willing to open up to do phone sexual talks and video calls. Few fooled me after taking through paytm or etc.

27 response(s), 23 votes
gettinafterit31 42 M
1  question
who else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point system - 7/28/2019

else loves the cut down fake im's from the new point system? bye bye the tons of bullshit ims!

40 response(s), 55 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
POINTS - 7/28/2019

this might sound dumb and i did try research this question beforehand. i know someone might try slaughter me for it but here goes. i have given "tips" and "gift" points. and i have used that 'top fan' to give points too. does the receiver or the member you give the points to are they able to use them/redeem them as well??? the research i got was about how get ...

34 response(s), 46 votes
Porn - 7/28/2019

What kind of porn do you watch get off?

39 response(s), 50 votes
NobullShit552 64 M
2  questions
FAKE accounts - 7/28/2019

Why are there so many "women" claim to be anywhere but are away visiting some family member usually in Africa? They usually seem to be ready to move right away no matter what my age or location is! I was on the site years ago and left due to the BS I thought it was worth a try again and found it to be more BS ever.

33 response(s), 32 votes
NobullShit552 64 M
2  questions
FAKE accounts - 7/28/2019

Why are there so many "women" claim to be anywhere but are away visiting some family member usually in Africa? They usually seem to be ready to move right away no matter what my age or location is! I was on the site years ago and left due to the BS I thought it was worth a try again and found it to be more BS ever.

4 response(s), 4 votes
Otis_Good 71 M
457  questions
Med Students - 7/27/2019

In the last year when going the doctor the doctor asks if it is okay for a med student to sit in during exam . Both times it has been a young lady that looked like a . Both times the doctor had me in a most embarrassing position with my pants down around my ankles and her grabbing to the glove . My question is do you allow medical students in the exam room ? <br><br> ...

21 response(s), 30 votes
babyborg 51 M
2  questions
??? - 7/27/2019

Would most people on here want just a sex partner or a relationship?

19 response(s), 14 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
Life lessons!!! - 7/27/2019

there are lots of things to learn from our elders. In our years , we crave knowledge in the sexual department.( am i doing this right oral..etc).I am guessing the problem still exist today <br><br> As we around our community, we can see the age difference relationships and the midlife crisis etc.(for example puff diddy sleeping with his ex girlfriend ) <br><br> Would you ...

28 response(s), 42 votes
AdultFriendFinder has little to no users 18-35 years old... Why? - 7/27/2019

So I seems to have ran into this issue in only a couple of days, but there seems to hardly be anyone on here who is under 30 years old. Most of the users in my area are older than me, and to be fair I do enjoy older women, but it seems like something is off. <br><br> Most of the women from 18 to 35 who have gold don't seem to be real. Most of the flirts I get are from email ...

28 response(s), 43 votes
Here4fun748 53 M
2  questions
Making a woman squirti - 7/27/2019

What is the best way to make a woman squirt?

22 response(s), 24 votes
Here4fun748 53 M
2  questions
Making a woman squirti - 7/27/2019

What is the best way to make a woman squirt?

3 response(s), 6 votes
supersonic635 47 C
1  question
How come orgasms a lady has is always different - 7/26/2019

Our sex life is awesome and he makes me multiple times and different sensations the vagina is so fascinating. Don't ya fink ??? When he starts of eating me until it's all fat n puffy and inside popping then his explicitly and its gush fest but each orgasm feels different (always MINDBLOWING) but can anyone explain. Xx

32 response(s), 45 votes
humpitags 51 M
1  question
Does the lack of IMs effect how much your on the site? - 7/26/2019

Does not having 3 free IM's make it less likely that your going to be on here?

83 response(s), 63 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
we meet. - 7/26/2019

that was my reply when asked, "how will i know it's you?" the conversation started on the IM and of his own volition he sent me a pic of himself (and his phone no.) we had only just started talking, but i guess he thought i would do likewise. i told him that i didn't like feeling pressured to do something i didn't necessarily want to do. now mind you, the first pic he asked ...

38 response(s), 47 votes
Blksecrets1914 48 M
3  questions
If you could add or change this site what would you do? - 7/26/2019

So motherless, xhamster even fetlife all have tons of profiles. What is it that that you want to have different on this site?

28 response(s), 23 votes
No Shows - 7/26/2019

I've been on this site for several years (off and on). And I enjoy reading about people here. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I do read all of the info you print down. I know, I'm a strange guy. But I like it. By reading all this info I notice that there are a few of you who get upset by no shows. My concern is not with the responsible no show who calls and inform you that they will not be ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
DeeSwan4u 55 F
3  questions
Do any of you have a pierced cock - 7/26/2019

What are the pros and cons of a pierced cock and pics would be appreciated

16 response(s), 23 votes
bhadauria1234 63 M
1  question
3 time r finished - 7/26/2019

Why finished ?3more time for chat

11 response(s), 29 votes
Blksecrets1914 48 M
3  questions
Does being with one person ever work - 7/25/2019

We all have tried it. Being with just one. Is the juice worth the squeeze, or is it for old people

28 response(s), 32 votes
funtobehad87 37 M
1  question
Now that standard members get no points, other good sites to use? - 7/25/2019

It seems all of the standard members on AdultFriendFinder no long get the 3 free messages a day, making communicating impossible unless you purchase points. <br><br> Anyone have some good recommendations for some similar / better adult sites?

45 response(s), 61 votes
Pdx79 44 M
13  questions
Why Do You Keep Using This Site? - 7/25/2019

I don't remember when I created this profile. It's always been here and I just keep updating it. In the time I have been using it things have progressively gotten worse and worse. It seems less and less is going into keeping the site running and more is going into setting up walls and keeping people from getting in touch with each other without . The bots are out of control. With all ...

39 response(s), 42 votes
Pdx79 44 M
13  questions
What Makes for a Good Profile Pic? - 7/25/2019

What makes for a good profile pic in your opinion? Do you prefer a closeup of the face or of the genitals? Full body shot or hyper focusing on a bit of the action. What sort of profile pic gets your attention and why? I prefer full body shots with a face because it shows that the profile is ok with all of themselves being seen. I do understand that there are reasons why many people cannot post a ...

25 response(s), 22 votes
tit size - 7/24/2019

do you prefer big tits or little tits

37 response(s), 42 votes
Nawtydiscreetfun 44 M
1  question
IM - 7/24/2019

Will free IM chat ever come back?

3 response(s), 2 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
"Trying you out"... Women try out men, too. - 7/24/2019

Dating you, Hanging out with you, Attempting to be your friend, Arguing with you, Joking with you, Playing sports with you, Chatting with you, Holding your hand.......These are some of the ways people , "Try you out". Sex [through dating] is just another way of, "Trying you out". <br><br> It was asked, "How many of you men would tell their ...

12 response(s), 29 votes
peterwillgro 65 M
2  questions
How can I generate a better responce to my profile - 7/24/2019

I need help and any advice you could offer would be appreciated

7 response(s), 20 votes
NorthMNFun 62 M
5  questions
No more free IM's? - 7/24/2019

As a standard member I used to get three free IM's a day. Does not appear to be the case any longer? Thanks

63 response(s), 58 votes
Clint20044 38 M
7  questions
is cyber sex unappealing? - 7/23/2019

i love real sex. but i like it on a cam too. it's quick and fun. however it's hard to find a partner now days... why?

25 response(s), 19 votes
rm_TucciMassage 44 M
1  question
Hypothetically - 7/23/2019

What is the best way to eat pussy? From the back or from the front or her straddling my face mm?

2 response(s), 1 vote
Obelicss 60 M
2  questions
Humedad Ambiente - 7/23/2019

¿Qué cosas te la mojan? <br><br> ¿Qué cosas te la secan?...

1 response(s), 15 votes
Obelicss 60 M
2  questions
¡Acerca de Subas y Bajas! - 7/23/2019

¿Qué cosas te la bajan? <br><br> ¿Qué cosas te la suben?...

1 response(s), 11 votes
masterclitlkr4u 65 M
1  question
Thoughts on the Sites Instant Messenger - 7/23/2019

What are your opinions on the way the Instant Messenger is being run now. As of July 17th the Standard Members are being required to give 10 points to converse in Instant Messages, regardless of who starts the message, not like before where Standard Members were given 3 instant messages per day.

33 response(s), 29 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
hot - 7/23/2019

and how to stay cool?

9 response(s), 16 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
hot - 7/23/2019

and how to stay cool?

2 response(s), 2 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
why is it so hot ? - 7/23/2019

uihuihruishrihfxdf jxoigoifoifd ikxodifoifjf nofdih dfihdf ?

10 response(s), 13 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
why - 7/23/2019

why is sex go hard to get ?

7 response(s), 14 votes
Triatleta_2019 42 M
3  questions
Sexo virtual - 7/23/2019

Como encontrar uma mulher para um sexo virtual na Cam? <br><br> Me ajudem ja q sexo real não arrumo

4 response(s), 7 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
fun to go - 7/23/2019

why can we all have sex?

12 response(s), 17 votes
Blksecrets1914 48 M
3  questions
Has this site changed for the better or the worst - 7/23/2019

I am not sure the powers that be will read this but we can only hope. What changes do they need to make to remain viable.

21 response(s), 19 votes
funfucks80 43 C
5  questions
Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019

Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a true domme female any our there

11 response(s), 17 votes
funfucks80 43 C
5  questions
Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019

Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a true domme female any our there

1 response(s), 2 votes
funfucks80 43 C
5  questions
Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019

Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a true domme female any our there

0 response(s), 3 votes
funfucks80 43 C
5  questions
Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019

Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a true domme female any our there

0 response(s), 1 vote
funfucks80 43 C
5  questions
Any dominant women out there - 7/23/2019

Blonde in my pic I'm eating pussy love to submit to a true domme female any our there

0 response(s), 0 votes
Otis_Good 71 M
457  questions
First time - 7/22/2019

My question is if you are with someone and they do something you have only heard of do you tell them that was a first for you ? Or do you act like it is old hat not wanting them to know you are inexperienced ?

22 response(s), 30 votes
pkin15 21 M
2  questions
Breaking up, do you cut them off? - 7/22/2019

Do you guys cut off the person you are breaking up with? Like no contact? If so, why?

35 response(s), 32 votes
izwatitis2 65 M
2  questions
fast way to get points - 7/21/2019

for new comers, just click on "like" tab on pictures and videos which appear on main page.

42 response(s), 56 votes
hardbuddy4fun 43 M
1  question
viewing cam and chat - 7/21/2019

If a standard member spends 20 pts on viewing a cam is included or is that an additional pts?

13 response(s), 20 votes
Actually meeting people? - 7/21/2019

Have many of you had success meeting for real, live sex?

26 response(s), 17 votes
steel162016 52 M
1  question
Confirm ID - 7/21/2019

Does comfirming your ID get more response

20 response(s), 21 votes
being able to view parts of profiles - 7/21/2019

I wish AdultFriendFinder would allow standard members view what members are looking for and aren't from their profiles so we can know if the people might be interested in talking or not so we don't waste our points on IM's that will probably go unanswered. Thoughts?

24 response(s), 23 votes
Rockhardforyou42 44 M
1  question
Free Messages - 7/21/2019

Did they remove this feature....havent had 3 free messages in days

24 response(s), 23 votes
Free chats - 7/21/2019

They want you use your points. I use get 3 free chats per day and now they are gone, no explanation. So now it costs me pts , and usually people don't respond. Too bad we don't get the points back on non responsive chats.

35 response(s), 33 votes
Free chats - 7/21/2019

They want you use your points. I use get 3 free chats per day and now they are gone, no explanation. So now it costs me pts , and usually people don't respond. Too bad we don't get the points back on non responsive chats.

4 response(s), 4 votes
Top Fan fraud. - 7/21/2019

As a free member I sometimes come across a member's profile I would like to read. If I'm willing to spend my points and become a "Top 10 Fan" of member the site allows me to read member's profile. Yesterday I tried to do and got the following message: "You can be a top fan starting 07/21/20. We do this to reduce ." Well, today is the 21st and I'm still ...

37 response(s), 27 votes
Kjoffrey 27 M
3  questions
What percentage of your IM’s get a reply? - 7/21/2019

It’s hard to tell if a message actually gets through or if it gets ignored. Messaging people for the first time the percentage reply is very low.

34 response(s), 24 votes
BJ - 7/21/2019

Is it better getting a BJ with or without a condom

25 response(s), 17 votes
sumon1617 24 M
1  question
Sex - 7/21/2019

What is the benefit of oral sex?

18 response(s), 12 votes
So who likes to get points? - 7/21/2019

What's the best way to get free points

11 response(s), 6 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
any 1 ? - 7/21/2019

why is ok to have sex ?

7 response(s), 13 votes
peterwillgro 65 M
2  questions
Have you ever experenced fear as a aphrodisiac - 7/21/2019

Have you ever been in a situation when you couldn't decide if you were excited or scared. A friend of mine was walking to her car in a heavily wooded area after leaving a bar when someone grabbed her arm and pulled her towards him she said her heart was pounding and she was full of fear but couldn't decide if she was afraid he would force her to have sex with him or afraid he ...

9 response(s), 13 votes
sex - 7/21/2019

CAn you get too much sex????

19 response(s), 15 votes
sex - 7/21/2019

CAn you get too much sex????

2 response(s), 1 vote
sex - 7/21/2019

CAn you get too much sex????

1 response(s), 1 vote
Porn preferences - 7/21/2019

Alone or together, what porn hits your spot? What are your porn turn offs?

22 response(s), 35 votes
pkin15 21 M
2  questions
Best way to have sex on vacation? - 7/20/2019

What do you think is the best way find NSA sex while on vacation?

12 response(s), 17 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
When a Woman is Out on a Date with Someone, or With her Husband or Boyfriend..Do You Check Her Out? - 7/20/2019

Hell yes! <br><br> Consider this advice: <br><br> Nothing, not even a ring on her wedding finger, should stop you from acknowledging a woman whom you think is attractive. You're not inviting her to cheat. You're letting her know she has at least other option. You. <br><br> If she wants cheat [with you], that is her business, not yours. ...

16 response(s), 36 votes
spurchise 36 M
5  questions
Abs of chest - 7/20/2019

Should man work on abs or chest more

10 response(s), 15 votes
Lonely2518 55 F
2  questions
Has AdultFriendFinder changed the rules - 7/20/2019

When I lost VIP, I thought I could get it back again by enough likes on my pics and videos as I did just last month. Has AdultFriendFinder changed the rules and made it so a person can't get VIP once a person loses VIP? If anyone knows, I would like know the answer. Please and thank you.

12 response(s), 17 votes
Is it too hot to have sex? - 7/20/2019

We are getting triple digits heat wave here in Philly. I prefer the heat over cold but over 100 degrees, that is just crazy . But you know what? In just 5-6 more months snow is coming. <br><br> So enjoy the sweaty sex everyone. <br><br> ...

32 response(s), 33 votes
8inchcock4funLFK 26 M
1  question
Anyone like to... - 7/20/2019

Sex in public places! The thrill... or maybe horror for others

12 response(s), 14 votes
its_only_me_here 52 M
1  question
Nudity - 7/20/2019

Would love find a small that enjoys being nude together. It would be ideal if of the members had a large property where we all could just feel the true sense of freedom. outside without clothing. I'm guessing it may be a bit too much to ask for.

15 response(s), 19 votes
DeeSwan4u 55 F
3  questions
Help me to help you to get hard - 7/20/2019

I enjoy teasing and want your thoughts tell me what would excite you if I were sitting above you at a sporting event on the bleachers <br><br> 1 lose top with no bra for a easy down blouse view or under boob view 2tight top tube top 3 sheer or mesh top with no bra 4 short skirt with sheer panties large mesh fish net or no panties 5 short shorts with or without camel toe 6 loose ...

20 response(s), 31 votes
Sweetsurrender43 52 F
2  questions
Nipples - 7/20/2019

Are all women turned on by having nipples sucked or sucking other women's nipples? I can almost cum from it.

22 response(s), 31 votes
Sweetsurrender43 52 F
2  questions
Nipples - 7/20/2019

Are all women turned on by having nipples sucked or sucking other women's nipples? I can almost cum from it.

2 response(s), 1 vote
smily661000 58 M
1  question
I can't have sex without my wife getting horny - 7/19/2019

We used to have a great sex life together, acting out our fantasies, always tried new daringly ways to please each other, from the first time we had a threesume with my best friend , and us three became very close and it was fantastic to experience us two with him, to live out fantasies the three of us , Sometimes we would just watch each other mastrubate ..if we met at public park's or ...

18 response(s), 33 votes
spurchise 36 M
5  questions
Chat - 7/19/2019

Does anyone know if there’s an app for AdultFriendFinder. The chat sucks

14 response(s), 19 votes
spurchise 36 M
5  questions
% of fakes on AdultFriendFinder - 7/19/2019

How many fake profiles you think are on here?

20 response(s), 20 votes
spurchise 36 M
5  questions
Man scaping - 7/19/2019

How far should one go? Would love to hear what ladies like.

9 response(s), 13 votes
tigger9595 55 M
1  question
Going Down on Her? - 7/19/2019

Ladies how long should a guy spend down licking your pussy?

29 response(s), 31 votes
DeeSwan4u 55 F
3  questions
have you ever been excited to the point that you experienced an untouched orgasm - 7/19/2019

other than a wet dream were you in a public place did you feel embarrassed or relieved is it something you hope to enjoy again would you try and hide it or bring it to my attention if I was teasing you in a public place

23 response(s), 33 votes
frankyep 29 M
1  question
Mensajería - 7/19/2019

¿Qué opinan sobre que los miembros estándar ya no pueden iniciar conversaciones de mensajería instantánea?

9 response(s), 19 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
Has anyone ever been psychologically diagnosed with nymphomania - 7/19/2019

At what point does loving sex become a mania ?

7 response(s), 15 votes
Acquaman2019 44 M
7  questions
Cosa preferireste? - 7/19/2019

Una cena romantica per rompere il ghiaccio, un aperitivo al pub, un appuntamento in una SPA, incontrarsi in un parco o in un cinema, un appuntamento al buio in hotel?

4 response(s), 10 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
What is the most important part of sex - 7/18/2019

Is it orgasm intercourse or foreplay

39 response(s), 30 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
What is the most important part of sex - 7/18/2019

Is it orgasm intercourse or foreplay

2 response(s), 2 votes
spurchise 36 M
5  questions
Chat - 7/18/2019

I wish people would respond not interested when chatting instead of ignoring.

23 response(s), 28 votes
Irishfanatic555 39 M
1  question
Why do women skirt topics - 7/18/2019

Why is that a woman will act like she's interested only to get what she wants? They may be and I may want to see them naked but I dont have to fuck every woman I see. Why not just be my friend for real if theres no interest in anything else

21 response(s), 17 votes
BBCNSA88 54 M
1  question
AM or PM - 7/18/2019

When is a good time sex? Morning or night afternoon?

39 response(s), 29 votes
izwatitis2 65 M
2  questions
brealking it off? - 7/18/2019

do you tell the person what you dislike about them after you have met/chatted with them, after you see the red flags or just disengage communications? <br><br> i know what i'm going to do but it's an interesting topic to discuss.

28 response(s), 23 votes
IM - 7/18/2019

Is IM working, if so why are free members being charged 10 points for each im, where are the free 3 ones??

18 response(s), 9 votes
BigBadWolf87108 61 M
1  question
who uses Zoom? - 7/17/2019

Looking to learn how to use Zoom Any "how to set up and use Zoom/Zoom Rooms" would be greatly aspreciated.

1 response(s), 4 votes
Bettibenobo 68 F
4  questions
Using Desktop site on phone - 7/17/2019

I don't always have access to internet on my laptop so I usually log into desktop site through my phone so I can read advice lines. And blogs if I can find some that are not just pics (sooo boring) <br><br> Either I log in on mobile and switch or log in directly to the desktop. <br><br> For a while now when on the full site, usually on the blog section or the advice ...

35 response(s), 59 votes
dangbitches 58 F
35  questions
Whats with all the - 7/17/2019

#%& ()*^ and the bla bla in all the messages and profiles?

41 response(s), 51 votes
Silkymadness 56 C
5  questions
Fantasies - 7/17/2019

why is it so difficult to people to admit that they have sexual fantasies? every person on the planet (once they the appropriate age that is) has them and if and when you fulfill them they evolve to something new. When you have someone wanting to try and fulfill your fantasy why is it so hard to tell them what it is so they can decide if they want to go there or not ?

37 response(s), 36 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019

When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable sexual appetite

20 response(s), 26 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019

When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable sexual appetite

0 response(s), 2 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019

When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable sexual appetite

1 response(s), 2 votes
Jasongil69 37 M
7  questions
At what point is an insatiable appetite for sex become unhealthy? - 7/17/2019

When would you consider it unhealthy to have an insatiable sexual appetite

0 response(s), 2 votes
Silkymadness 56 C
5  questions
is it bad? - 7/17/2019

when a couple decide to invite a guy to join them in the bedroom is it bad to ask the guy to provide the room? i.e. you provide the venue and we provide the entertainment. until you get to know them well enough to be able to comfortably invite them to you house or you go to their house?

21 response(s), 19 votes
Silkymadness 56 C
5  questions
is it bad? - 7/17/2019

when a couple decide to invite a guy to join them in the bedroom is it bad to ask the guy to provide the room? i.e. you provide the venue and we provide the entertainment. until you get to know them well enough to be able to comfortably invite them to you house or you go to their house?

0 response(s), 4 votes
Silkymadness 56 C
5  questions
Erotic or not? - 7/17/2019

ok guys, so you have been chatting with a couple and you all decide to meet at a local park that has several secluded walking trails. Would it be erotic for you that when you meet she shows up wearing something sexy like a teddy and pantyhose with heals on. or would that be too much and possibly intimidating? how about if she was wearing a leotard?

28 response(s), 19 votes
rogers1rogers 44 M
1  question
no more free chats? - 7/16/2019

use to get three free chats on i.m....today wont let me. new change or just a bug?

56 response(s), 50 votes
jjsexx123 30 M
1  question
Messanger / I'm - 7/16/2019

Hi, <br><br> Sometimes I click on messanger as it says I have messages but it won't let me read them. I gather as this is because I am a free member. Yet, sometimes I can log in and then be able to reply to them via messanger and as soon as they reply, again it becomes blocked? <br><br> I know that before you could get free gold trials based on how popular / active you ...

31 response(s), 45 votes
SuckMy8Plus 58 M
57  questions
Masturbation Action ? - 7/15/2019

As you can tell by my profile picture, i masturbate in Different ways the usual action. Do You Do the thing every time, or do you Do something 'different' occasionally <br><br> ?

23 response(s), 38 votes
What's a good way to get lots of free ppints? - 7/14/2019

Looking for lots of free points.

35 response(s), 47 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
Who is crude, who is refined? The publisher of their pic, or the person commenting on the picture? - 7/14/2019

..and why should the person commenting get kicked? <br><br> A hundred years ago, putting ones naked picture on public display was crude, certainly not refined, behavior. <br><br> Just how are you not crude, for telling someone you masturbate to their pictures? ha.. Is there a refined way to say, "I masturbate to your pictures"? <br><br> ...

19 response(s), 55 votes
Rich6969123 38 M
1  question
Best way to earn more points - 7/14/2019

I'm trying to figure out how to earn more points or possibly earn a free trial as a gold member any advice would be helpful thank you

41 response(s), 53 votes
Threesomes - 7/14/2019

Who had met for a threesome man and a couple.. and was how you found out you were bi because when they played she also wanted to see her man with a man and you did not object, and enjoyed it all.

23 response(s), 29 votes
iceprince2019 68 F
1  question
Where are the swinger clubs in Springfield Missouri? - 7/14/2019

I have been in Springfield Missouri for the past several years and now am single and looking. Does anyone know where the swing clubs are ?

7 response(s), 35 votes
playagay1 59 M
1  question
Cam - 7/14/2019

lately I have not been able to send my cam to others on . Has this feature been discontinued?

7 response(s), 26 votes
1kittylikker 73 M
2  questions
Are you bi? - 7/14/2019

I consider myself to be str8. I find the idea of kissing another guy repulsive and I would not go down on one, however I would probably let a guy give me a blow job. Does mean I'm bi? My favorite sex act is going down on a woman either with or without reciprocation.

31 response(s), 30 votes
Sunday Question - 7/14/2019

How long can a well fit older man well healthy can last longer in bed during Summer?

51 response(s), 57 votes
flatlinetwice 32 M
2  questions
12 month vs 1 month - 7/14/2019

Is it really worth it to pay the 12 months? Or only month by month skipping months that are dead? Thoughts? Thinking of finally going premium

20 response(s), 22 votes
How come ..... - 7/14/2019

How come it seems the only guys on these sites are the ones that want someone on the side, on the DL, and discreet?? why is it so difficult to meet a genuine honest loving guy, that isn't cheating on his woman? Are there no men left with values or that are willing to give the time&effort to have something good in a relationship?

23 response(s), 28 votes
Abq_Gal 41 F
1  question
How much hair... - 7/13/2019

Does it matter if I wax and if so how much should be removed?

37 response(s), 31 votes
tunred on - 7/13/2019

Who gets turned on by sex in public?

12 response(s), 15 votes
Who cums first? - 7/13/2019

It’s my understanding a woman should always cum first. You agree or disagree?

47 response(s), 34 votes
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm - 7/12/2019

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0 response(s), 0 votes
why is it that i am unable to get genuine response? - 7/12/2019

It feels so disappointing when you dont get good response online as well. One may get feeling of dejection. Can any one help how to improve ones own chance of getting good and genuine response here.

17 response(s), 23 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
gangbang at office? - 7/11/2019

how many of you working in a small office, suddenly, got involved in a nice gang bang with your coworkers? <br><br> maybe you are the girl willing it to happen, with some involuntary signals, and your male colleagues surprised you one day, or maybe you are one of the guys who have been talking with your other male colleagues about a female coworker you have been watching for long, ...

34 response(s), 44 votes
rm_anthony 57 M
1  question
What percentage do you think really want to meet? - 7/11/2019

What percentage of people here do you think really want to meet for physical contact NSA encounters? Seems like quite a few just in it for the chatting. Loneliness perhaps?

46 response(s), 35 votes
People in your city? - 7/11/2019

Just curious how often do you guys get to meet with people in your city? It seems all the interesting conversations I had in here are from either the states or somewhere else

20 response(s), 19 votes
JohnNewD42 48 M
2  questions
DTF? - 7/10/2019

When you are and about in public, how do you discreetly let others know you are DTF?

24 response(s), 31 votes
JohnNewD42 48 M
2  questions
DTF? - 7/10/2019

When you are and about in public, how do you discreetly let others know you are DTF?

4 response(s), 3 votes
Affording this site - 7/10/2019

What is the best way besides spending my hard earned cash to keep our site going???

20 response(s), 34 votes
Hotrod806969 39 M
1  question
Fffhhiojvcc - 7/9/2019

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16 response(s), 15 votes
blavkrod 64 M
1  question
my partner - 7/9/2019

Is having a cousin as your partner inappropriate?????

23 response(s), 26 votes
kokonera 45 C
1  question
free gold after camming? - 7/9/2019

Hey all, it used be the case that you could earn a couple of weeks of free gold after camming for a while. At least if your show attracted enough viewers But this seems be no longer the case. Did this change?

23 response(s), 32 votes
Bigshow191278 45 M
2  questions
Who is up for it - 7/9/2019

Do I want it

12 response(s), 17 votes
2lovers4peace 36 C
1  question
Does everyone cheat? - 7/9/2019

I feel like everyone has cheated at least once and with one person they were with. Would you consider harmless flirting to be cheating? Talking to other people of the opposite sex? Sneaky or anonymous dating apps? Is it possible to be faithful in today society?

48 response(s), 46 votes
scraps2016 41 M
2  questions
Writing this to get points - 7/9/2019

Grr need points

31 response(s), 32 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
The young male asked us: "Is 18 too young of an age to be on here? " - 7/8/2019

This is advice I didn't get to say due to the 25-limit: <br><br> Age 18 is not too young to be here. But should you be here? Probably not. <br><br> Your profile seems to invite all kinds of queer individuals to take interest in you, more so than the women. Are you sure you want that queer stuff on your profile? <br><br> If I was 18 today, I would be ...

20 response(s), 38 votes
texnin036001716 64 M
1  question
Getting verified - 7/8/2019

I've been trying to get verified for a while now but evidently I'm doing something wrong. Do I have to be confirmed before I can get verified? I've tried to send my picture with my username but the site doesn't seem to download it Help!!!

12 response(s), 23 votes
Wolfenstein52 40 M
2  questions
How to introduce yourself - 7/8/2019

Let's not always be brash as some people are shy and dont respond well to dominant people... it's a fun community but different backgrounds and different triggers so let's all try n look out of the box to build a diverse community and one without hate... this site is fun and dont wanna see assholes ruin it

23 response(s), 35 votes
scraps2016 41 M
2  questions
Dinner? - 7/8/2019

Does just cooking for someone lead to sex?! My experience it doesn't!

27 response(s), 25 votes
ebony4ivoryboys 32 F
2  questions
Anyone else afraid to meet? - 7/8/2019

I'll admit I've been talking to some great people on here but I am too afraid to meet. I mean you never really know who youre really talking to, they could be sane and cool or insane and dangerous. Does anyone else feel this way?

42 response(s), 47 votes
Bourica 37 C
2  questions
Nipple stimulation - 7/8/2019

I love my nipples being played with can anyone help?

23 response(s), 45 votes
Bourica 37 C
2  questions
Nipple stimulation - 7/8/2019

I love my nipples being played with can anyone help?

5 response(s), 3 votes
Im not lookin for a BF.... basically a fukbuddy situation ha. Thats it, then msg me 2678236038 - 7/7/2019

Im not lookin for a BF.... basically a fukbuddy situation ha. Thats it, then msg me

2 response(s), 0 votes
Bettibenobo 68 F
4  questions
I WAS WRONG!!!!!!! - 7/6/2019

i should have figured it was a site glitch. LOL. <br><br> It WAS NOT a rude comment and I need stop thinking the worst. I recently went thru health issues and am just getting around to feeling better this year. I was so tired from being sick I felt I was never going to feel good again. But I am a little more every . <br><br> Sorry for being such a downer and thinking ...

29 response(s), 56 votes
kinginsize07 58 M
1  question
anal sex - 7/6/2019

how do woman enjoy anal sex,

28 response(s), 48 votes
AnewWoman 65 F
139  questions
When to put politics aside - 7/6/2019

This morning on the IM here I had an interesting chat. Kind of wish I copied and saved the thing, but I will try my best to convey what was said.
This 51yr old single guy with a couples profile, gold member, was chatting me up and after some initial compliments on my profile he said "Before we go any further, do you agree the current administration is an embarrassment to our nation and ...

32 response(s), 52 votes
lyavu 50 F
37  questions
HE IS HOTT AS FUCK - 7/6/2019

I met him 10 yrs ago when i was ending a relationship. I made the first move on a dating site didn't expect a response but he did respond. He is attractive, laid back and intelligent. He made me wait a longtime to get intimate because he wanted to get aquainted. Finally it happened and i wanted more and more and ihe gave me all the sex i wanted . Then he moved out of state for a job ...

36 response(s), 57 votes
Hungnorcal2108 34 M
1  question
Bravery - 7/6/2019

How to you find the courage to go through with the nsa that you so deserve and desire?

10 response(s), 15 votes
Sosfucking 51 M
2  questions
Apes - 7/5/2019

What if this was run by planet of the apes? Could it b worse or better? Oh you filthy ape.

13 response(s), 24 votes
Sosfucking 51 M
2  questions
Chat - 7/5/2019

Y foes it take s point to then like one or two later I'd pops up for one point?

14 response(s), 25 votes
flatlinetwice 32 M
2  questions
Cold feet at the last second, or something else? - 7/5/2019

So, I've been talking with this woman for the past week or so, very light and CASUAL conversations, until the 3rd of july. She got flirty and so did I, she exchanged pics with me. She IS a premium member, and I am not, though this really shouldn't be an issue. We got to the point where she finally gave me her number so we can instead of using the WONKY IM chat, around 5pm that day when ...

27 response(s), 33 votes
BeMyMrsRight 27 M
1  question
Profile advice - 7/5/2019

As the 90, 000, 000th single guy joining this site all competing for the attention of one of the single girls, I was curious about any advice for creating my profile. I see a lot of guys with dick pics as their main profile pic and crude stuff in their bio. I tried to design my profile rather genuinely and somewhat less obscene.... but I'm not sure if that is not gonna work on a site like ...

11 response(s), 18 votes
Thers a profile from someone I know casually.. - 7/5/2019

Its her and her fiancé. I only met her this march before they got back together.When we met the chemistry was really good and we flirted a good bit. Shes much younger, the both list bi in the profile. I'd like to pursue this and see what happens. How/when do I let her know who I am. We are fb friends as well.

20 response(s), 30 votes
LaloChp 40 M
1  question
Just want the real you. - 7/5/2019

When some one shows nude pictures and you want to say, I just want to fuck you hard, when is the right time to say that?

12 response(s), 21 votes
Pauldrake666 58 M
3  questions
Hi - 7/5/2019

Does anyone else luv shaved fat black pussy

5 response(s), 18 votes
Pauldrake666 58 M
3  questions
Hello - 7/5/2019

Is anyone as horny as I am.

7 response(s), 19 votes
Surreysfinest604 19 F
1  question
i was wondering if anyone else gets intense sexual dreams - 7/5/2019

like ive been having some really harsh sexual dreams where i actually wake up after i jiz LMFAO but anyways this is jus really weird as they appear to happen more frequent due to time? like idk can anyone else relate?

20 response(s), 31 votes
Benzzzy316 31 M
1  question
Is AdultFriendFinder the best site? - 7/4/2019

Is AdultFriendFinder the best site for meeting and fucking?

13 response(s), 15 votes
albanyguy4funow 56 M
1  question
Anyone like outdoor sex? - 7/4/2019

Looking for fun couples that like outdoor sex.

21 response(s), 28 votes
1980hwl 52 M
6  questions
Disabled or di interested partner - 7/4/2019

My wife has health issues, causing lost interest in sex. Has been years of almost zero, Nd years with no oral. The time without has pushed me to explore bi guys to get some. Should I share with my partner my desires for bi men and wanting more?

19 response(s), 18 votes
1980hwl 52 M
6  questions
Disabled or di interested partner - 7/4/2019

My wife has health issues, causing lost interest in sex. Has been years of almost zero, Nd years with no oral. The time without has pushed me to explore bi guys to get some. Should I share with my partner my desires for bi men and wanting more?

1 response(s), 4 votes
LatinoStud2020 28 M
1  question
Do people really hook up on here? - 7/4/2019

Anybody have luck hooking up??

40 response(s), 38 votes
BigNicknKyra 44 C
1  question
Best anal lube? - 7/4/2019

Any suggestions?

22 response(s), 33 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

Lincolncpl I can't begin to tell you how much I want to fuck your girl!!! Almost as much as I want to see your bbc in her pretty white pussy!!!

15 response(s), 23 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

1 response(s), 0 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 1 vote
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

2 response(s), 1 vote
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 1 vote
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 1 vote
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 1 vote
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Mark35160 46 M
12  questions
Everything about her turns me on - 7/3/2019

There is a chick that keeps viewing my profile. I don't have any way to communicate with her but Nathalie if you see this. DAMN I want you!!!!

0 response(s), 0 votes
Pauldrake666 58 M
3  questions
Hi - 7/3/2019

How is everyone

19 response(s), 17 votes
Bigcockbrok 26 M
1  question
Non member struggles , no nut deployment:( - 7/3/2019

Anyone who is not a member can probably feel my struggles but a man I just trying to bust a nut but 90% of the time I send an IM, which I only get 3 a day they don't even read it, it's mad im possible to get laid almost, only time I did get satisfaction out of it was when someone tipped me a few points and got lucky. On deployment just trying to get my nut off in Australia, SOS

20 response(s), 32 votes
G_Spot421 38 M
3  questions
wtf - 7/3/2019

y is everyone fuking fakes on here??...

26 response(s), 20 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
who understands oneself situation? - 7/3/2019

I found that mostly who is in the same situation than me understand and respect me more than others...

9 response(s), 15 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
duties and responsibilites - 7/2/2019

how many times when you have met someone online has called you greedy because you don't quit with your duties and responsibilities when there is not warranty the other would do so?

9 response(s), 11 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 53 F
8  questions
Profile Denied - 7/2/2019

[Hello everyone, <br><br> I submitted an update to my Auto-Reply in the message center the other day. I logged in today and there is the beautiful yellow banner across the top of the page saying my profile has been denied. Hmmmmm...... that's interesting because I have not made any changes to my profile. I check my message center and the update for my Auto-Reply ...

14 response(s), 15 votes
Ladies/Gents what about a man arouses you the most? Muscles?Size/Girth Of Cock? Or Looks? - 7/1/2019

I know there is more just looks and muscles etc such as the character of a man etc. But from those three choices. What would matter the most you? If you choose muscles state whether the size of them matters more or the definition of the muscles. If you choose cock. Is it the length that matters more or the girth. If looks as in regards their <br><br> Men are welcome answer also ...

14 response(s), 24 votes
Ladies/Gents what about a man arouses you the most? Muscles?Size/Girth Of Cock? Or Looks? - 7/1/2019

I know there is more just looks and muscles etc such as the character of a man etc. But from those three choices. What would matter the most you? If you choose muscles state whether the size of them matters more or the definition of the muscles. If you choose cock. Is it the length that matters more or the girth. If looks as in regards <br><br> Men are welcome answer also what ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
Wolfenstein52 40 M
2  questions
My first real experience - 6/30/2019

I had a fine lady invite over to her home for my first experience on here and man o man did she not disappoint..... i guess that there are real women there that no how to please a man.... I wish we can spend more time doing that in the future but this site does work...

34 response(s), 51 votes
Hot_Chick_Eater 27 M
3  questions
IM system - 6/30/2019

The IM system seems really buggy on my computer. If you close the chat once do all the previous messages disapear? Is there any way to get them back?

10 response(s), 12 votes
Hot_Chick_Eater 27 M
3  questions
Points system - 6/30/2019

So I saw something that showed everything you could do and get a total of 4000 free point. When I try doing what it says I don't get points or I get less than what it said. Did the poin system change recently or does it take a while to get the points?

12 response(s), 13 votes
Why does the I’m have so many problems - 6/30/2019

Question in the title

8 response(s), 11 votes
Hot_Chick_Eater 27 M
3  questions
Free member - 6/30/2019

So as a free member on this site what should I be doing to look for people. It seems like other than my 3 IMs I can start a day (none of which usually respond) there is no way to connect with people. Does this site work at all if you don't pay?

10 response(s), 10 votes
whatever happened to the old "What is fuck"? dude? - 6/30/2019

Cause this page could use his intellect , it seems.

15 response(s), 13 votes
Who should get oral first? The man or the woman? - 6/30/2019

I say I as a man should go down on a woman first as in my opinion it takes more time getting a woman to orgasm. Sometimes i have to eat pussy for 20 minutes straight till she gets all squirmy and has her first orgasm. The following orgasms are easy as long as you keep the mood and pace going <br><br> What do you guys think or Not Bling Owner...

41 response(s), 54 votes
I just got banned by utfrangrl the moderator of AdultFriendFinder NAughty for no reason at all - 6/30/2019

I got banned for stating facts about global warming by the moderator utfrangrl who also has a blog lol. I didnt say anything derogatory or any nasty comments or anything. She even liked my previous post on their and directly commented on my post where i shared the womans breast i fucked. Her size breast were 55. She stated in my thing she loved the breast and proceeded to look my profile. ...

24 response(s), 39 votes
Why is there an influx of scammers? There is a scammer using a number 632 - 6/30/2019

I keep getting an instant message from a scammer using the number 632 i have texted number and i did up and til they sent a fake photo. Each question you ask its like a bot is answering it lol with auto generated text! BE WARE OF THE SCAMMERS DONT FALL FOR IT <br><br> They get on my nerves ...

21 response(s), 25 votes
Weed or alcohol - 6/29/2019

Which do you prefer before sex. Weed, alcohol or both? And why

33 response(s), 41 votes
grinjack 75 M
127  questions
Reporting - 6/29/2019

I am inundated daily with flirts and IMs from ladies in their 20s. I realize that they are fakes/bots but I never report them. I am interested in how other members handle this situation.

28 response(s), 28 votes
CO_guy69 37 M
1  question
Bisexual guys - 6/29/2019

Do bisexual guys get a bad rep?

38 response(s), 45 votes
kysoul42134 48 M
2  questions
Deepthroat Skills - 6/28/2019

What’s the best deepthroat skill you can share?

21 response(s), 33 votes
kysoul42134 48 M
2  questions
Deepthroat Skills - 6/28/2019

What’s the best deepthroat skill you can share?

5 response(s), 6 votes
IM problems - 6/28/2019

Why does instant message go to busy all on its own?

29 response(s), 42 votes
ahmedfox1985 34 M
1  question
any one have anal play ??????????? - 6/28/2019

when you have anal dose make you hard and want to cumm???????????//

26 response(s), 40 votes
G_Spot421 38 M
3  questions
do u think u could shoot up.... - 6/27/2019

do u think u could shoot up cum / piss ??? i heard u can.. haha let me no if u have ...

35 response(s), 43 votes
kensmith88 43 M
6  questions
I’m audio and camera - 6/27/2019

Why is it now wanting to access your camera and mic if you try to chat if you click no it cancel it out

10 response(s), 21 votes
fun4me2find 56 M
1  question
hot or not in my area? - 6/27/2019

when I look through the hot or not section...it brings up people not even close to my area anymore....can I choose the area I want to view?

18 response(s), 40 votes
ZTREYAA 51 T
47  questions
SEXUAL TOYS - 6/27/2019

Listen to a psychologist on a radio station sexual to say that disapproves sex toys because there is a tendency to abandon intimacy with the couple. The truth gave me a lot of laughter. Erotic toys are never going to replace the couple and I think that in this sexual game I will say that the more sex have, more usually want to think clear is my opinion ...

51 response(s), 77 votes
Singletrackride 45 M
1  question
Real people - 6/27/2019

Is it just me or does it seem like there are a lot of fake profiles here?

27 response(s), 35 votes
Mrmagnum1973 41 M
5  questions
Whybitch - 6/27/2019

I hate that womwn think they can say stupid shit like just stfu and fuck Just so assumptive its sucks the life outts relationship Does anyone agree

19 response(s), 24 votes
Mrmagnum1973 41 M
5  questions
Why - 6/27/2019

I hate that womwn think they can say stupid shit like just stfu and fuck Just so assumptive its sucks the life outts relationship Does anyone agree

12 response(s), 15 votes
Dentures - 6/27/2019

I have met this very nice gentleman a while back. He has a good job, a nice paying job. He dresses nice and smells good. He messages me every now and then and asks if I want to hang out but I always find an excuse not to. When I went out with him months ago I realized he has dentures when we were kissing. That really grossed me out. Sometimes men can be pushy about going out with them and I find ...

29 response(s), 25 votes
JB56425JB 39 M
1  question
How Do You Want It? - 6/26/2019

Would love to hear from everyone!!

1 response(s), 0 votes
oralcare74 45 M
1  question
Addicted to eating pussy - 6/26/2019

I love eating pussy, and i would sometimes rather eat pussy than fuck. Am i just that turned on by it?

31 response(s), 26 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
What makes an AdultFriendFinder profile the hottest? - 6/26/2019

Obviously, the hotter the pics and videos, the hotter the profile. <br><br> But, besides a fit sex bodies, what makes pics and videos the hottest? Please post links to some of your favorite pics and vids. <br><br> What makes the written portion of the profile hot? Love to see examples. <br><br> Finally, if you won't be too harsh, please constructively ...

28 response(s), 41 votes
test 123 - 6/26/2019

option1 option2 option3 option4

9 response(s), 6 votes
sfsfsgggge - 6/26/2019

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6 response(s), 7 votes
test test test - 6/26/2019

test1 test2 test3

17 response(s), 22 votes
Daddys_Girl209 52 C
1  question
AdultFriendFinder Trolls - 6/25/2019

A local BBW woman on here that we were chatting with last night asked us what's the best way to deal with AdultFriendFinder Trolls like Heathen_G who repeatedly attacks and leaves rude comments on blogs of BBW woman left a very rude and hateful comment on her blog. <br><br> I think my husband had the best answer "Just Block Them" and move on because no matter what if its AdultFriendFinder, ...

35 response(s), 39 votes
Mobile or Desktop? - 6/25/2019

How many of you only use AdultFriendFinder on your phone or your desktop?

36 response(s), 28 votes
Is it okay to enjoy watching porn and playing with myself then with my bf - 6/25/2019

I enjoy saving pictures and watching videos of other men. Sex with my bf is nice, but I am really turned on by other men, especially when they're hot and I know its wrong.

40 response(s), 37 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
sex - 6/25/2019

why r most on here full of it ?

20 response(s), 21 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
sex - 6/25/2019

why r most on here full of it ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Why doesn't my blog show ump among the most recent - 6/23/2019

Anybody know why my blog isn't showing up? It is called the right mistake.. maybe I am mistaken, maybe i am a spaz, , but any ideas? I'm getting views but have no idea why it is not showing up. Thanks

9 response(s), 15 votes
Why doesn't my blog show ump among the most recent - 6/23/2019

Anybody know why my blog isn't showing up? It is called the right mistake.. maybe I am mistaken, maybe i am a spaz, , but any ideas? I'm getting views but have no idea why it is not showing up. Thanks

0 response(s), 0 votes
Have your sexual preferences changed over the years? - 6/23/2019

Fellow students. Sexual cravings can be evolutionary based on life experiences and the search for the new. Any of these resonate? Is there more kink now? Craving Asians or other interracial relationships? Experimenting with the same sex. although as Robin Williams noted, "after a while with no matter who it is, it's always the same sex." Leaning toward BDSM? Gert me the blindfold ...

22 response(s), 38 votes
lyavu 50 F
37  questions
ONE OR MORE SEXUAL PARTNERS? - 6/22/2019

I have been on the site for a while and met a few guys. Most expressed interest in sexual partner but the mood or stories change when you meet in person. I have always wondered are people on the site looking for or more sexual partners. Anytime i mention am looking for sexual partner it seems drive guys away . Is it a bad thing seek partner, or do people prefer having multiple sexual ...

43 response(s), 60 votes
Zarwillnot 60 M
2  questions
Where Do I Start With Erotica? - 6/22/2019

I have finished a of very short erotic stories; I am just wondering when and where I can submit them for opinion and possible publication. <br><br> Very best regards, Bret Berry "Zar Will Not"

3 response(s), 22 votes
Zarwillnot 60 M
2  questions
Where Do I Start With Erotica? - 6/22/2019

I have finished a of very short erotic stories; I am just wondering when and where I can submit them for opinion and possible publication. <br><br> Very best regards, Bret Berry "Zar Will Not"

0 response(s), 2 votes
recover account - 6/22/2019

is it possible to recover a deleted account on here?

9 response(s), 26 votes
ZTREYAA 51 T
47  questions
I LOVE YOU BUT... - 6/21/2019

I LOVE YOU BUT I SEEK TO PLEASE IN ANOTHER PERSON When these needs are not met, the risk of infidelity grows They may be sexually attracted and still love their partners! Will it be possible? <br><br> <br><br> TE QUIERO PERO BUSCO PLACER EN OTRA PERSONA cuando estas necesidades no están satisfechas, crece el riesgo de infidelidad ¡Podrían sentirse ...

31 response(s), 67 votes
antreas202 39 M
1  question
Hello - 6/21/2019

Hello how are you??

0 response(s), 0 votes
run in with scammers - 6/21/2019

first time and last fell for a scammer to give my email. did so she sent picss, then the dreaded dating . messed with them when figured . phillipines, wanted to wire had a ball with that one! what are some of your stories

26 response(s), 34 votes
im 54, divorced. if i wanted to have a one night fling, how would you go about it? - 6/21/2019

ok, been of dating thing for 30 years. If a older guy wants a one nighter, how do i go about it?

19 response(s), 29 votes
Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019

So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs . I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this site. Now its been about a yr and I ...

34 response(s), 68 votes
Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019

So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs . I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this site. Now its been about a yr and I ...

0 response(s), 4 votes
Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019

So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs . I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this site. Now its been about a yr and I ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019

So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs . I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this site. Now its been about a yr and I ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Boy freind for the wife - 6/21/2019

So here is the deal. my wife has always enjoyed having a bf for some sex but he had to move off and its been about 5 yrs . I keep telling her to look for another but she is not one to flirt with anyone and she really don't like the whole looking thing. So she has tasked me with looking for her or u might say hooking her up. so that's why im on this site. Now its been about a yr and I ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Hungie88 31 M
1  question
Why do Cougars like younger? - 6/21/2019

Wyd do they like younger men is it a bucket list for them or does it make them feel young again?

46 response(s), 65 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
getting married with more of 1 partner? - 6/20/2019

if your partner is fine to get married with one more partner, would you accept it? if yes, you did it, how did your life change? <br><br> in here I am not talking one about 1 man getting married with 2 or more women, I am also asking for 1 woman getting married with 2 or more men, even mix. So it is about polylove experiences.

21 response(s), 31 votes
bluelinedog 61 M
1  question
Straight guys: Would you take a BJ from a guy or a cd? - 6/20/2019

Straight guys: Would you take a BJ from a guy or a cd? <br><br> If you were horny enough, even just curious, would you take a bj from a guy or a cd if it meant you do not have to suck back and the pleasure it totally for you?

3 response(s), 2 votes
The future of adult sites - 6/20/2019

AdultFriendFinder has not changed much all in the past decade, I mean the format and the features, if not the members. What is the evolutionary path of this and other sites like it and what suggestions would you make to improve these sites? In my geographical location there are simply not enough women available online and I have noticed a definite drop off in gold members in my area. Including me. This site ...

21 response(s), 43 votes
shootitome2 73 M
1  question
Does it work? - 6/20/2019

Build your own Private Postbox Receive Readable Messages and Reply *Special note: Darling Annette gave me permission to repost this exactly as she formatted it, complete with providing me the necessary information, to help communicate the helpful message of setting up your own postbox. <br><br> Anyone can set up their own Postbox message system at AF. The setup runs via AF Blogs. ...

19 response(s), 39 votes
Can't wait for AdultFriendFinder 18-39 year old to launch! - 6/19/2019

I'm just too excited to keep the secret anymore, but AdultFriendFinder is going to be launching a version of their platform for users -39! <br><br> <br><br> From what I gathered after getting the scoop from some of the web developers I found on linkedin, there was a huge shortage of users from ages -30 on the site. Apparently, most of them had been driven away by ...

47 response(s), 58 votes
MidnightBlue645 59 M
1  question
Issues With AdultFriendFinder Messenger - 6/19/2019

, I have not been on this site long but I was wondering if anyone has any issues with chatting through the sites messenger, or is it just not working for me??

56 response(s), 56 votes
Drugs and sex: When do we legalize Marijuana in PA? - 6/19/2019

We heard there is a bill in Harrisburg for legalizing recreational weed in PA similar NJ. Does anyone know when this will be put for a vote? <br><br> Sex is just enhanced more when I have this prior. Hubby say I tend be willing try different things and open more single males or I get more horny. LOL <br><br> ...

36 response(s), 46 votes
Otis_Good 71 M
457  questions
Dominican Republic - 6/18/2019

People dropping like flies. Does anybody have a guess as to what is killing the tourist ? <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ...

23 response(s), 40 votes
ZTREYAA 51 T
47  questions
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION - 6/17/2019

Ugly or beauty are extremely concepts of a lot of controversy. Surely you have heard some once the popular saying of "for tastes colors". Why while for a person a person may seem attractive, Maybe for another it is not so much. Surely who has a genetic favorable attracts more, nor how to deny it, who thinks otherwise your statement is false but that does not mean conquer to all people, ...

64 response(s), 86 votes
up4goodtimennm 49 M
3  questions
Anal - 6/17/2019

Is anal considered a fetish or just a different method of swing/sex ? Just wondering 😎

29 response(s), 51 votes
up4goodtimennm 49 M
3  questions
Anal - 6/17/2019

Is anal considered a fetish or just a different method of swing/sex ? Just wondering 😎

2 response(s), 5 votes
1funguydoes2 65 M
1  question
what do the letters rm mean - 6/17/2019

I see the letters rm in the front of a lot of members handles, what do these letters stand for?

17 response(s), 40 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
To recap on hotbibabe's post: ...."Do you expect sex on first date...".. - 6/16/2019

My answer:___You should always expect sex on a first "Date". No sex? Not a date. <br><br> The problem? __ You both referred to a "First meeting" as a "Date". When you refer to it as "Date", this develops certain expectations of what is to happen. The next problem...you probably plan an evening for the meeting. Don't do that. ...

27 response(s), 58 votes
Srabon2017 31 M
2  questions
Dating - 6/16/2019

What should do on first date?

28 response(s), 19 votes
Srabon2017 31 M
2  questions
Dating - 6/16/2019

What should do on first date?

0 response(s), 0 votes
fwb_n_nwa 58 M
1  question
What part of AdultFriendFinder has been the most helpful and what has been the most difficult? - 6/16/2019

I am new to the site and the moment a non-paying member. Before I decide to actually upgrade my membership, I would love to hear from some of about your AdultFriendFinder experience. Particularly features of the site have been the most helpful. Hope to get some feedback. Thanks!

29 response(s), 47 votes
Hot_bi_babe 44 F
1  question
Do you all expect SEX on the first Date - 6/16/2019

Can we just meet first and have a conversation and a drink before having sex? Is too much to ask? Do we have to fuck every person we meet on here? Is a requirement? What if we meet and there is something we don’t like about each other? Can we just meet have a laugh and move on if it’s not the right Fit? <br><br> Why do people think if they took the time to meet you then you ...

54 response(s), 54 votes
tom4u777 57 M
9  questions
Happy Fathers Day! - 6/16/2019

Happy Fathers Day to all you fathers out there. And remember to use a condom ... unless you want to become a father again.

13 response(s), 24 votes
Bigboo6yyyy 46 F
1  question
Has anyone actually found any love on here - 6/15/2019

Just wondering if like the touching and the sex and the sneaking around and the meeting in motel rooms and romance has caused anybody to fall in love with each other on this site...

46 response(s), 53 votes
CandyHRIS 27 C
4  questions
Anyone out there? - 6/15/2019

Although some people will get on talk and or cam it seems like there isn't a lot of people who choose to meet up. Is there any advice on how to these people? How do we show we are serious about swinging??

27 response(s), 45 votes
CandyHRIS 27 C
4  questions
Denver - 6/15/2019

Are there actual clubs or places where there is a regular get together? Or just somewhere we can go to learn more about how to incorporate this into our relationship?

7 response(s), 24 votes
CandyHRIS 27 C
4  questions
Denver - 6/15/2019

Are there actual clubs or places where there is a regular get together? Or just somewhere we can go to learn more about how to incorporate this into our relationship?

0 response(s), 1 vote
CandyHRIS 27 C
4  questions
Newbie - 6/15/2019

What advice would you tell a newbie or a newbie couple?

12 response(s), 21 votes
gangpera 62 C
2  questions
How much you Love the Nature and Us? - 6/15/2019

Love begins with the nature. We are just another creature or thing or product of the nature. If you too think and feel that you too are belong to the nature you will love all constructive and productive thing in the nature with no discrimination. So that you will love us and our caliber traits as we love you and your caliber traits unconditionally and altruistically, because we are not dreaming ...

17 response(s), 31 votes
Lilsour1ne 26 M
1  question
Is getting a gold membership actually worth it? - 6/15/2019

Or nah

29 response(s), 31 votes
Heathen_G 64 M
28  questions
The Baker Should Sue for being Harassed. - 6/15/2019

I find it ironic that a transsexual would be asking about how spot fakes. ha.. oh well he blocked , which is just fine. Anyway, I was thinking about that baker in Lakewood Colorado is being sued a 3rd time for not making a cake that goes against his religious convictions. A guy changed his appearance sorta as a woman wanted a cake celebrate his new . The baker said he couldn't do ...

17 response(s), 38 votes
SuckMy8Plus 58 M
57  questions
POINTS ? - 6/14/2019

Mine have ALL Dissappeared. Has This happened to You?

25 response(s), 30 votes
jennifercd34 54 T
15  questions
Your experiences with adult nursing relationships - 6/14/2019

Folks, <br><br> Whenever I come across ANR videos I get excited and intrigued. I particularly like when two women are involved. <br><br> Please share your experiences with actual adult nursing. <br><br> If you are a women, please let us know if you were giving or receiving; and, what you enjoyed and didn't like. <br><br> Also, where are AdultFriendFinder can ...

22 response(s), 32 votes
1seeking1 58 F
33  questions
Site changes - 6/13/2019

So many changes, instant messenger, seems slow and can not view profiles while there. Even the magazine has changed. Think I liked the older versions better. What about you like the old or the new?

78 response(s), 78 votes
Chikkachakka 38 F
1  question
Sex - 6/13/2019

Can sa face sex oral?

13 response(s), 14 votes
NioNBi 60 C
2  questions
WHAT IS THE MOST POWERFUL SEX ORGAN ........? - 6/12/2019

I guess that you have many fantasies, kinks, desires and powerful triggers that can dictate you whether or not you are going to get sexually attracted to someone or whether or not you are going to have sexual intercourse with someone. <br><br> So, please feel free and be frank enough to TELL ME IN BRIEF that what is the MOST POWERFUL SEX ORGAN HE/SHE had ...

55 response(s), 68 votes
Casual_Friend76 47 F
3  questions
Is there a way..? - 6/12/2019

Hey folks, sorry if this has been asked before! <br><br> On your home page right underneath the "who's online" section it shows a preview of which members are broadcasting (this is on the full site, I'm not sure what it comes up like in the mobile app). Mostly what I am seeing there is basically gay porn. I have nothing against, and mean no offense to gay men at all; ...

40 response(s), 71 votes
Kojuno 30 M
1  question
Why only 25 replies - 6/12/2019

i know the update is in progress but only 25 replies seems low!!

22 response(s), 32 votes
Live member web cams - 6/12/2019

Has anyone ever watched a live member web cam and had a good chat with them as you watched and got turned on then actually got to meet them to do what both of you were imagining as you played on cam?

21 response(s), 21 votes
HenryNJune69 52 C
8  questions
IM Tips? - 6/11/2019

Do you use the tips feature in IM? Why? <br><br> Do IMs with tips get more responses? <br><br> Or is it just to give points to someone you're chatting with?

28 response(s), 50 votes
AliOrbit 64 F
3  questions
Dating Rules - 6/11/2019

Do you have any dating rules you never break, no matter what the circumstances?

32 response(s), 49 votes
stezy_ 39 M
3  questions
IS IT OKAY FOR A GUY TO WANT TO GET TOTALLY SOAKED, SQUIRTED on? - 6/11/2019

wwould u be involved in a squirt party where by girls squirt on you?

34 response(s), 60 votes
stezy_ 39 M
3  questions
IS IT OKAY FOR A GUY TO WANT TO GET TOTALLY SOAKED, SQUIRTED on? - 6/11/2019

wwould u be involved in a squirt party where by girls squirt on you?

0 response(s), 4 votes
Legit9inchwrench 35 M
1  question
What is my problem with women am I ugly - 6/10/2019

Text saysit self

42 response(s), 73 votes
SuckMy8Plus 58 M
57  questions
Missing Points. - 6/9/2019

ALL My POINTS Dissappeared overnight ! I Cannot 'Contact' AdultFriendFinder here, so i wonder if Anyone else found that their Points Suddenly Dissappeared?

35 response(s), 47 votes
Ladyguru 54 F
1  question
Married - 6/9/2019

Is it wrong to be adventurous in sex outside your marriage?

45 response(s), 71 votes
Did you call the police after they assaulted you? - 6/9/2019

So I've heard from a couple of people on here and on tinder that women get assaulted when meeting people pretty often. Stalkers you seek them in public, or people that they meet up with that end up having a mental disorder that results in an assault, possibly worse. In those instances what have you who have been faced with this done? I would say this is a very important topic to discuss ...

17 response(s), 40 votes
undermythong 43 F
51  questions
Did you ever? - 6/9/2019

When you were young did you ever sneak around your dads room or your brothers room and find there Playboy magazines and look at them? My friends and myself did it never got caught back then they all had a big hairy bush now its different .Did you ever sneak a peek?

54 response(s), 102 votes
Ever run out of people in your area? - 6/9/2019

So I've come and gone on AdultFriendFinder for a little while and have been lucky in the past to meet some people. Though it seems that at the moment I don't really have anyone else that I could connect with. Whether it be a faulty chat, my reluctance to get gold, or some other factor (yes, maybe it's an approach issue), I just don't have anyone else to connect and meet with in my area. ...

16 response(s), 25 votes
Wellequippedn612 36 M
1  question
what make your Sexual experience the best? - 6/9/2019

when you lok back the fun, the wild and the random. What things made the experience good. what did you try new or different? did it go as planned? is there a pattern or a certain routine you like to follow to lead to your ultimate satisfaction? Are you currently with or still in touch with the person or people who you shared the amazing time with ?

13 response(s), 32 votes
gangpera 62 C
2  questions
What is the best oral sex position you wish to deal with? - 6/9/2019

Hi Friends, <br><br> Thanks to the teachings of my “SL SEX GURU” my hubby and me have learn that less focused oral sex is so much more exciting and intimate than highly focused penetrative vaginal and anal sex to achieve mutual orgasm and to lead a great carnal life. <br><br> YET, WE WISH TO HAVE YOUR PERCEPTION AND TO VERIFY THAT: * Do you think that ...

38 response(s), 46 votes
Arielhoney 31 F
1  question
Flower$ for sex - 6/9/2019

Is it wrong to use these platforms for means to pay bills? Yes i have a regular job, hours and situation is keeping me from making my potential income. And any advice on how I can make it clear that it is what im looking for without scaring anyone off?

3 response(s), 7 votes
bcjoe88 27 M
1  question
do women like swallowing cum ? - 6/8/2019

i just wanna see how many women mind it and or dont

42 response(s), 61 votes
YouWant2Cum2 55 C
28  questions
Sympathy Blowjob - 6/8/2019

the wife of a couple and every once in a while chatting with a guy he says how he has not had a blowjob in years. I guess the question is: <br><br> Females. Have you ever given a sympathy blowjob? <br><br> Guys. Have you ever received a sympathy blowjob? <br><br> In general what do you think of Sympathy Blowjobs?

42 response(s), 57 votes
tom4u777 57 M
9  questions
Beware the Flirts - 6/8/2019

This has probably been talked about before ... <br><br> I get several flirts from women who are too far away from me, and who obviously have not read my profile page. I'm pretty sure most are fakes or looking for some personal info they can use. I ignore them. <br><br> I'm guessing others are experiencing this?

26 response(s), 27 votes
GcupQueen 42 C
1  question
Sharing with your husband? - 6/7/2019

Is it ok to share your best friend with your husband?

48 response(s), 101 votes
gDfranc 75 M
5  questions
oral sex - 6/6/2019

my S/O does not like to do oral , says cause her have irritation she does have problem with dryness, was told by 2 MD, sex time usually first thing in morning would like suggestions as to lube, dams love eating pussy would like her pussy being eaten by or some one else as being fucked

29 response(s), 57 votes
gDfranc 75 M
5  questions
oral sex - 6/6/2019

my S/O does not like to do oral , says cause her have irritation she does have problem with dryness would like suggestions as to lube, dams love eating pussy <br><br> would like her pussy being eaten by or some one else as being fucked

1 response(s), 2 votes
NorthMNFun 62 M
5  questions
Profile picture - 6/6/2019

Why does my profile picture say " may not be seen by most members"?

32 response(s), 44 votes
Fhjghhfghddsgj 37 M
1  question
Horny - 6/6/2019

Looking for some fun

8 response(s), 21 votes
JayHendo339 25 M
1  question
More black women - 6/5/2019

Are there any black women on here??? Can never find any in my area

16 response(s), 26 votes
Sparky19princess 37 C
2  questions
how to find other bi girls - 6/5/2019

we have a dry spell. what are some other ways to find bi girls for both myself to play with and for us to have a 3 some with??

16 response(s), 28 votes
Sparky19princess 37 C
2  questions
how to find other bi girls - 6/5/2019

we have a dry spell. what are some other ways to find bi girls for both myself to play with and for us to have a 3 some with??

1 response(s), 2 votes