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Thoughts About Relationships and Yourself  

dickencider2006 71M
22 posts
2/13/2014 12:19 pm
Thoughts About Relationships and Yourself

These are thoughts from others much more eloquent than I.

~Let go of those who aren't really there. There are certain people who aren't meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to. And the only ones truly worthy of your love are the ones who stand with you through the hard times and laugh with you after the hard times pass. Maybe a happy ending doesn't include anyone else right now. Maybe it's just you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is simply letting go.
~In the end, loving yourself is about enjoying your life, trusting your own feelings, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning from the past. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not exactly how you planned, but just how it's meant to be. ~

40BATS 54F
197 posts
2/14/2014 8:53 pm

Ironic that I read this post on the most "loving" holiday of the year. Maybe I was supposed to see it, on this day, at this time. In reading this, I know there are some things (and people) I need to delete from my life. Yes. loving myself is about enjoying my life, and lately I haven't found much to enjoy. So, it is time for me to enjoy and rejoice in me. Maybe, then, things will be clearer...better. Thank you for posting this.

dickencider2006 replies on 2/14/2014 10:50 pm:
The hardest part is letting go, not looking back. If you don't let go, it holds you back from getting to that better place you deserve to be. Screw all thats happened and enjoy being you. Tell yourself you are not that person anymore. You are smarter, wiser and a better person for all the past issues. It's time for the real you to come back and be known.
Big hugs to you, my friend....

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