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My Vegas trip  

MJputergurl 60F  
57 posts
5/15/2012 12:54 pm
My Vegas trip

My Vegas trip was a blast!
If you are ever there, do make the time to go see the Erotic Heritage Museum. It's not tacky or sleazy like you might expect, but actually very nicely done. Entry is free, though they do ask for donations.
We went there with a friend who is into rope bondage, and their group holds their meetings at the museum. The group was made up of couples and triples that all performed and demonstrated their rope bondage skills.
Everyone was fully clothed, and while it was certainly very erotic it was also very beautiful and loving to watch. I came away with an appreciation that, just like in trans-porn; pornography cheapens what the real world thing is truly all about.

The Power Exchange was also very naughty fun too! The place is huge, it's clean and has plenty of things to see or do, many different rooms that are all themed. Entry is free to women and transgirls, and they'll even give you one bottle of water for free if you ask. There is a vending machine with water and soft drinks that are a bit pricey. I'm not sure if you can bring your own things to drink or not, but I didn't see any prohibitions against it. No alchohol is allowed and smoking is only allowed outside.

The themed rooms all have no doors, so anyone who wants to can watch from the door, but there's a chain you can hang across the doorway with a sign that means "stay out" in case you don't want anybody to join your fun. This is strictly enforced, and there were two bouncers present to do so!

There are also many common areas, including several stripper poles and a bondage area, as well as a couple large rooms with sofas and chairs to just sit and talk or relax. I'm sure you could play in those areas too if you wanted to have your play be open to anybody that asked to join in.
There are video screens all over the place playing XXX vids. They have a room with clean used clothing for sale, with some nice clothes at very low prices too! So if you can't bring clothes or want to try a different outfit, you could do so. Ohh, they also have a tanning booth too.
My only negative observation about the venue is that I thought the theme rooms were all just a little too dark. There is nice mood lighting present and you can generally see what is going on but I thought it could be a little brighter. Maybe that's just the exhibitionist in me talking, and I'm sure it's impossible to please everyone on something like that. It occurs to me now to ask if there were some way to adjust the lighting, I didn't think to look or ask then.

I went to the club from our hotel with shorts on over a bikini bathing suit; we had our toys, lube, condoms, wallet, and outfit for the night in an easy to carry bag. They supply condoms and paper towels, but not much else. My suggestion is to bring a box of wet wipes, that was the only thing we regretted not bringing with us.

There were plenty of T-folk there of every variety to play with as well as cisgender guys and gals. We got there around 9PM and we were about the only people there, but by midnight there were lots of people.
When we got there, I changed my clothes. I was wearing a black lace crotchless body stocking with a g-string and pink heels. I have an adorable pink collar that I wore, my SO had fun taking me around the place by leash and we got plenty of attention from everyone there! A couple guys were obviously following us around hoping we were gonna invite them to our play, giggles.

My fantasy for the night was to have my arms tied behind my back, with a ball gag in place so my SO could control things when I got too mouthy (or if I were required to share oral service), lol. From there, I had hoped she would take me around and offer me up to whoemever she decided. It was exciting to think someone else had control of when to "reveal what I've got going on".

Alas; since this was her first time at something like this and our first time doing something publicly sexual together, we didn't really get that far. We both had never been there either, so it was all a little too much new stimulus. We did play twice in one of the rooms and I know she orgasmed a lot quicker than she usually does though, giggles.
I share that to point out that even in a polyamorous relationship it's important to keep experiences like this in perspective and remember that everyone's expectations aren't always fully met. It takes time to bring someone new to these things to the same level of comfort you might have.

I know that in the past I would probably have just lost patience and told the other to get lost while I went off and tried to have my own fun; then I would feel lousy and guilty about it later. Thankfully I am with someone now who is totally worth working it out! We stopped at one point to just talk about it all and shared our fears and expectations, and agreed we'd love to come back another time now that we both know what to expect.

We still had a blast, and we created growth in our relationship and within each other. I love being poly!


"Know masculinity, maintain femininity, and be a ravine for all under heaven." - Lao Tzu

rm_sherkahn 64M
35 posts
4/30/2013 12:23 am

Sorry MJ, I didn't know where else to post this. First of all, allow me to thank you for your contributions to BootCamp. Secondly, please forgive my ineptness of linear thought and my clumsy aptitude. You are a breath of fresh air in this morass of sophomoric seduction. Many folks from BootCamp have gone onto become very good friends based on their words and carriage alone. I don't know where you are located in the world, but should ever the chance we are in the same area, Sheralike and I would be very happy to meet up with you, if for nothing else, just to put a face to the name.

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