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Journeys in the spectrum  

MJputergurl 60F  
57 posts
9/27/2013 12:26 pm
Journeys in the spectrum

I was talking with a group of people today about how we each see our life's journey as it relates to gender, and where we find ourselves most comfortable:

I've seen the journey as more of a pendulum shift to my center; after abandoning one pole and swinging to the far extreme, it left some of my essence in limbo and I found the need to swing back a bit before I found a harmonious stasis.

Certainly, my center has reacquired the polarity it always should have had; and it's one that is opposite to what I was forced into at birth. But the entire essence of my being still stretches across what were previously boundaries; it's erased those boundaries and I feel I have access to all of my potential.

Thanks for listening.

"Know masculinity, maintain femininity, and be a ravine for all under heaven." - Lao Tzu

lockerroomthief 60M

1/16/2018 8:01 am

Marie, not surprising I love your blog, you write from the heart and full of forgiveness. Your new profile pic complements the beautiful you. Candy

JeffXcitedNow 69M
282 posts
4/18/2017 3:24 am

MJ, your writing certainly shows U as such a very in touch & insightful person, describing such a transformation and metamorphosis in the terms you use. It's such a huge positive change you describe so eloquently. Go amazing gurl!! Thankyou I can't fight, nor imagine an appropriate an appropriate emoticon. Jeff

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