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I gotta say this...
Posted:Jun 1, 2010 11:11 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2013 5:21 pm
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I've had my fill of getting emails from people whom I've never met before, but insist on giving me, a complete stranger, their contact information.

What are you going to think of me if I make arrangements to meet you? Are you the one with the chloroform or the gun, or am I? Would you really take that sort of chance, and do you really expect me to?

The confidence displayed seems to stem from the fact I viewed their profiles. But think about this:

1. If your pic shows up on AdultFriendFinder's front page, and I move my cursor over the page, it might glide right past your profile pic. This shows up as my having viewed your profile, whether or not I did.

2. Just because I view your profile, it doesn't necessarily mean I was attracted to what I read there.

3. If you reciprocate, and view my profile (and actually read it), you'll see that I do not come here to make arrangements for r/t meetings, especially with strangers.

4. Just because I'm on this site, and don't intend to meet anyone, remember that it's not up to you to determine who has the right to log on. When you tell me I have no business on this site, you have to already know I'm not going to delete my profile just because you can't get into my pants. I don't need your permission, and don't have to defend my actions to you.

5. To all those who have written and not given me contact information, I thank you. Your letters have been sweet, non-judgmental, and nicely worded. You are the ones who will find more friends and fun on this site than those who come in for the express purpose of trying to intimidate others.

6. To those who insist on private chat with those they've never chatted with before, you'd do better to agree to chat with them in public first, where they can observe how you treat everyone, not just the one you're trying to lure in. If you show the same courtesy and sense of fun with others, they're more likely to believe it's not just a mask you're wearing for them.

Just remember, you may not like me and want nothing more than to put me 'in my place', but I've had a lot of fun on this site, and have made a lot of friends. I'm used to better treatment, so nothing you say is going to chase me away. Get over yourself.
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