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On My Own ... Searching  

GotKT 62M
8 posts
8/9/2015 10:33 am
On My Own ... Searching

When I moved out of what is now my wife’s house, I took very little with me … clothes, some tables and chairs from my office, and tools, car stuff, bike and ski stuff. The first few things I bought were a bed, a TV, a double reclining love seat, and some basic kitchen stuff. I spent the next six weeks or so settling in to my new home, building a work bench and shelves in the garage and going to some track days with my car. I was enjoying my new found freedom and abundant spare time. But I was also feeling a real need for sex, possibly more than any time in my life.
One evening after seeing one of those ads on a porn site that said “there are women who want to fuck you tonight”, or something like that, I signed up on hook up site (the one that specializes in affairs for married folks). I wrote a very blunt, and probably desperate, profile and sent flirts to every woman within 100 miles and then canned messages. Not surprisingly, the only responses I got were from scammers that wanted my telephone number and e-mail and/or wanted me to go to watch them on some cam site that always asked for a credit card number. Disappointed, I joined another site that turned out to be totally useless before joining AAF. My initial experience with AAF was more scammers, one of which scammed me into joining yet another worthless sex site with the promise of an orgy.
I take full advantage of the learning opportunities on this site. AAF has a lot of really good advice about the do’s and don’ts of attracting the attention of a potential partner. So I rewrote my profile from scratch and replaced the photos of me naked in front of a mirror with photos that showed who I am and what I’m about. I included photos of me smoking my pipe that were taken by my wife during our travels. I included photos of me in a suit at a wedding. I even included photos of my car at the track, not to impress women with my car (it actually is not very impressive unless you are really in to cars) but because taking my car to the track is my favorite hobby. In my revamped profile, I provided an honest and detailed description of what I’m all about and what I’m looking for. Finally, I also began tailoring my messages to the profiles that interested me and limited my messages to those profiles that looked like a good match.
It had been over a month since I join that first site, and two and a half months since I moved out on my own, and I was finally getting some responses from women who were not trying to scam me. I had bailed from two of the sites I joined but remained active site I first joined in addition to AAF. I joined a number of groups on AAF and was optimistic about getting laid.
During the week I would tweak my profile and each Sunday I would send about a dozen messages between the two sites where I was still active. However, when I did get a response, I couldn’t seem get past the first couple of message exchanges. There was one lady that I thought I had a real connection with only to find her profile disappear completely one day. Then at the end of May, on the other site, I finally landed a date. Turns out that was all took to launch me on to the next phase of my journey.

Enjoy life and never be afraid to try new things

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